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    Deployment Diaries: What is a Deployment Like?
    Breanne Cassidy
    • May 7, 2018
    • 3 min

    Deployment Diaries: What is a Deployment Like?

    Deployment is… a whole mess of emotions that I don’t even have a word for. It was like going through puberty, it was like I was dating a ghost, the beginning, middle and end all had totally different vibes to them. Going through deployment is kind of like going through puberty. It’s awkward, it’s unfamiliar, you spend your days just trying to figure it out, you have good days and you have bad ones but overall it’s a horrible time. Once it’s all over, however, you realize how
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    Breanne Cassidy
    • Jan 22, 2018
    • 3 min

    Deployment Diaries: What to Send in a Care Package

    After T deployed, care packaging got a little more serious. The things I was sending before were, in all honesty, more for my enjoyment than his. It was stuff that he could’ve easily went to Walmart and just got himself.  That’s not really the case anymore seeing that hes on a sub these days. A lot of what you send and what they need depends on your sailor and what kind of craft they are on, what kinds of shifts they have and work they do. But I have learned from Taylor a few
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    Deployment Diaries: Six Ways to Make the Time Fly
    Breanne Cassidy
    • Oct 23, 2017
    • 3 min

    Deployment Diaries: Six Ways to Make the Time Fly

    I felt really overwhelmed after Taylor left. It is my first time going through a deployment and I had no idea where to start as silly as that sounds. How am I going to survive all these months? What am I supposed to do to pass the time? How do I go back to “normal” life again? Break the time up into smaller chunks: The first thing I did was break the deployment up into fourths. I wrote down the date that we would be a quarter of the way through, half way through and three qua
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    Hawaii Travels and Deployment Goodbyes
    Breanne Cassidy
    • Oct 16, 2017
    • 4 min

    Hawaii Travels and Deployment Goodbyes

    It would be an understatement to tell you that Hawaii was beautiful. And the time that I spent with Taylor and his family was just as beautiful if not more. I went to Hawaii to visit T and to say my last goodbyes before he goes under the sea for a long period of time, the longest period of time that we will be apart thus far in our relationship. If you read my last post, “How to Travel to Hawaii for Cheap,” you know that we rented an Airbnb which, let me tell you, was a bless
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    How to Get Back On Your Feet After They Leave
    Breanne Cassidy
    • Jul 12, 2017
    • 3 min

    How to Get Back On Your Feet After They Leave

    You’ve just spent this amazing few weeks with your SO filled with lots of love, companionship, laughter, fun-filled plans and parties. Then no sooner do they get back that you find yourself back at the airport waving goodbye with tear-soaked eyes and a snot-filled tissue in your non-waving hand. Then there is the drive home from the airport that you don’t really remember too much because of all the thinking you have done during that time. Then before you know it, you are stan
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    Five Tips on How to Handle the Distance
    Breanne Cassidy
    • Jun 26, 2017
    • 3 min

    Five Tips on How to Handle the Distance

    There is no denying that distance is hard and I would be silly if I told you that I have found a way to deal with it completely. I haven’t. But I have found ways to bring comfort during those times when I feel like my heart is literally tearing in my chest, those nights that I toss and turn and can’t fall asleep. 1.Grow yourself a support system I think of my support system as a circle. The reasoning for that is because none of them come before the other and they are all ther
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    Seven Ways to Help Alleviate the Fear of Being Cheated On
    Breanne Cassidy
    • Apr 24, 2017
    • 4 min

    Seven Ways to Help Alleviate the Fear of Being Cheated On

    I hear all the stories. The ones where a sailor comes home and the house that once held his valuables, his life and his wife is now completely vacant. The girl who waited at home and kept the house and kids up and running for months at a time finds out her deployed husband cheated. I have even heard recently that women wait at ports to try and persuade military men into sleeping with them. *Shudders* I think we all have fears of being cheated on and these can especially be ma
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